Showing posts from December, 2017

My New Year's Message to you!

Happy New Year!


Year in Review Video

I just recorded a video.  I will try to do more of them this year. Video        

I have moved this blog to Word Press!!!

With the help of my wonderful daughter, she has moved my blog to Word Press which has more features I can use and I am now a  Yeh! Click on the link below to go to my new site All future posts will be on my new dot com site.  Yeh!!

WAH! He blocked me!!!!

Okay, so today this guy contacted and wanted to get to know me.  This is from Twitter.  So I said sure.  Well once I asked mY question, (and you know the question), he blocked me immediately.  Which means?  He isn't who he said he was.  What a surprise. Here is the conversation.  Get your popcorn ready. REMEMBER:  DON'T SEND MONEY TO SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW!!!    

New bumper stickers

I just got my new bumper stickers to advertise my blog.  If you'd like one, just email me your address and I'll send one.  FOR FREE!!!  Yes for FREE!! New pens are coming soon.  They should be delivered to me by next week.  And yes they are FREE too. 

He can't even spell "his" name right?

Didn't think I'd have this story to post already but I was up late last night chatting with this dude and of course I tested him, and of course he failed.  Here is the conversation.  Again, I am lying about everything about myself.  This one even more.  :)   By the way, his name is:  Bryrant Fergurson and his English is horrible.  As you will see.  :) Funny thing is when you ask for a photo a certain way to prove they are who they say they are they either get bent out of shape or just play it dumb.    This guy dumb.  He has no idea who he is trying to fool.  LOL!!   

I received a thank you today!!!

I am so touched.  I received a facebook messenger message from a lady who ready my blog and thanked me for it.  I have copied her messages to me below.  Hello Patsy - Thank you very much for your Stargate Lady blog. I was contacted by Paul Laub today, and found your story soon thereafter. My reply to his email was to copy-and-paste his oil rigger story to you. I am certain he will be blocking me on POF shortly, but his name on that site is now JA97230. Also, the picture I have attached is the one from his POF page. In any case, I appreciated reading through your blog! Smiles   My response:   Thank you so much I’m so glad that my blog was able to help someone would it be OK if I just copied your story I won’t use your name but I just want to Your story so that people can see it at that I help people   Her response: Actually, "Paul" and I did exchange a few more emails before he finally blocked me. Something is really wrong....either he isn't English as a first langu

He told me I was beautiful!!!! LOL!!!!!!

Today's contestant is Sanders James.  Yes that's how he has his name.  LOL!!   I really didn't give him a chance but as usual the grammar was terrible so I slammed him down right away.   Now this guy was from Twitter.  Now I think I said this before, they are messaging me on twitter and Instagram.  I don't think I need the dating site anymore.  LOL!!!

A wonderful lady sharing her story with me.

I received this message in my facebook messenger and I wanted to share it.   Hi Patsy. I am so thankful that I googled Paul Lab and came across your blog. I suspected him right from the start. I'm wondering if you also were contacted by a Stewart Clisby supposedly in the army in Poland and to be retired in 3 months. He's and incredible piece of work as well. I am so glad that you are getting the message out to vulnerable women. thank you so much. I'll attach a photo of Stewart Clisby.     My response back:   Hi Suzanne - so nice to meet you. No He doesn't look familiar. I am surprised because I've become a magnet for these guys. LOL!!!   Her response:   Nice to meet you as well Patsy. Then you probably will meet him. He was madly in love by the third email. Very long romantic messages and as much as I would tell him that I was uncomfortable with that sort of talk from a stranger he just persisted. Finally stopped all contact with me when I told him that he shouldn&#

Happy Halloween!!!!!!!!!!!


New Story of a Scammer from KSDK Channel 5

Channel 5 article

Another Chris Evans Scammer - Is gullable tattoed on my forehead - LOL!!!

Okay, so on Instagram Chris Evans contacted me.  OMG!!  LOL!!!  I knew from the beginning he wasn't real.  I love Chris Evans but so do about 10 million other women.  I was getting ready to go to bed and thought I'd check my phone.  Well, Chris sent me a private message.  I no longer need to use dating site, they are coming on twitter and Instagram for me so I am saving money.  LOL!!! So here is our conversation.  Enjoy it.  I sure did.  I played along big time. I got to use one of my favorite quotes from a movie I love again.  Now, over on Twitter I got a message from Vin Diesel, who I also love.  LOL!!!  Nothing to tell yet but I will keep you posted. I also got contacted by Wentworth Miller.  Now I wasn't sure who he was but I looked him up and he did the serious Prison.  So I'm playing dumb.  As the conversation progresses I'll let you know. I did learn something cool tonight on Pinterest.  If you are chatting with someone online, make them Skype with you.  If t

ARGH! Captain Joe Morgan!!!!!!!

The name reminded of a pirate.  LOL!!  Okay, so this one is from someone who contacted me on Instagram.  Now this time I decided to tell lies myself.  And here we go: Guess what?  I never heard back from him.  LOL!!!  Another day another scammer.

Today's catch

Okay so I am Ulta sitting and playing on my phone while my daughter shops.  Chatting with a liar.  LOL!! Well I took the suggestion of someone on Pinterst and asked this guy to send me a picture of himself right now holding up 3 fingers.  A minute later he blocked me.  LOL!!!!!  Here is the conversation.  And remember I am making up most stuff now, if they aren't truthful neither am I.


I want to wish you all a wonderful Thanksgiving.  I am thankful to all of you who come back and continue to read my blog of crazy stories.  I love doing it and I wouldn't be successful with it, if it wasn't for you.  THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

Chris Evans # 3. Will the real Chris Evans please stand up

Okay, the trolls are out in full force.  Poor Chris Evans.  I've had 3 Chris Evans fakers now.  I posted a note on his twitter and the 2nd one about it but not sure he will even see it. Anyway, here is the latest conversation.  Again I exaggerate a bit.  They can make up stories so I can too.  And here we go... One note, the picture he sent me of him, I had already had found on the internet several months ago.  I knew he was fake but I played along.  

Please take my survey

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Woman scammed out of $350,000 by imposter ‘US Army general’ who romanced her from Syria




And I know you're gay

Okay, here is a goodie.  Not as crazy as some but a good story to tell.    This guy contacted me on Twitter (like they all do now).  Sweet talk, yada yada.  So I look  him up on facebook and he does have an account.  Funny part of this story is, the guy on facebook is gay and has a post that says someone is impersonating him on twitter and that everyone knows he is gay so if you receive messages from him, he is a scammer.  Oh I just had to play with this one a little.  I did message the real guy on facebook to tell him but it was before I saw his note on his facebook page.  then I sent him the link to my blog.  So far he hasn't read it.   So let's begin the conversation history.  Please note that I have started to play their game and lie about myself here and there.   I've started saying how lonely I am to get the conversation going.  As you all know I am the last person to be lonely.  :) I finally blocked him on Christmas Eve.  He was never going to send me the picture I a

Today's contestant on "Try to Fool the Stargatelady" is: Sylvester Muller

Okay I sent a message to this guy.  Of course they want to email.  So here is the first email: Hello Pasty How are you doing ? Thank you responding to my   personal email,Sorry for the delay to my respond .My names are Syvester Muller, I 'm a widower as you see in my profile,I have one child her name is Kelly she is 16,I live in Virginia Beach alone with my daughter,My family lives in Miami,lost my dad few years ago. I'm general and optimistic person with a great sense of humor seeking someone to enthrone as my queen,I have been single for three years now, I was Married for 17 years it hurt so bad for you to lost someone you love,well life is such a gift, I'm Self-Employ I'm into oil/Gas distribution and also work contract work for various oil/gas company, I'm open for a long distance relationship i have been through it before with my late wife so i can do it more better. My late wife pass away by cancer it was very painful but such is life, My Birthday is April

I posted a video!

I really like doing videos.  I think when a person tells you story and you hear them say it. it is much better.  At least I think so.  :)\ Be sure to take my survey if you haven't. Today's video

Taking a break from online dating

Okay, so I decided to take a break from the online dating sites.  I've deactivated my profiles on the 2 sites that I belong too.  I've doing this since last August and decided I need a break.    Now don't worry I will still blog.  I want to blog about success stories and new tips that I come up with and any more information or research that I find.   The stargatelady isn't going away.  She just wants a break.  :)   So if you have a success you would like to share, let me know and I would love to post it.   We'll all in this to meet someone special.  Someone we can have a good time with and share fun stuff with.  And who knows maybe even fall in love.  You never know.   I plan to continue advertising my blog.  I want to share my stories and make sure no one (man or woman) fall for any scammers.  Learn from what I've learned.   So, keep reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A scammer got sentenced to 15 years in prison!! Yeh!!!!!!!!

Just saw this on Yahoo!  Yeh!!!!!!!!!!!! Arizona Scammer sentenced to jail

A new tip

If you live in Missouri, you can go to to see if the person you met has any legal issues etc.  I am not sure about other states but I know in Missouri you can check it out. You'll need their first and last night.  But this is a good tool. Missouri Case Net Be safe!!!

Allow me to introduce you to David Bob Jones

Yes that's today scammer's name.  LOL!!!!  I deactivated my profiles for a while to take a break.  Last weekend I decided to reactivate them just see what's happening.  And right away David Bob Jones sent me a message on POF.  LOL!!  Well when I looked at his picture, are you ready?  This is the 3rd time this picture has been used.  LOL!!  I couldn't stop laughing.  So as the stargatelady, I played along.  Well, here are the emails.  Get your popcorn and soda ready cause here we go. Wow Patsy, You really look soo sweet and charming, I love your smile, Can you try and get hangout messenger for us to chat and get to know each other better, I'm very happy to meet you on the site dear, I really want to stay in-touch with you and see where this will lead us. My name is  David Bob Jones, I was born on the 18th of September 1967 at Baptist Hospital of Florida,I started A & A Children start 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playfu

October 8 - my one year anniversary for blogging

On October 8, 2017 I will be celebrating my one year anniversary of blogging about my online dating experiences.  My stories that I share you with all have been hilarious, crazy, entertaining and fun.     I want to do something special for my anniversary.  But I need ideas from you.  Should we have a get together at the Park to celebrate?  Any of my local readers could come and share stories and I would love to meet my readers.   Or is there something else I should do?  I want your ideas.  So comment here on the blog or email me your suggestions at .   I'm trying to decide where to go from here.  I had thoughts when I first started this about starting my own dating site but I would need IT help.  I'd like to design a site where members identifies would be verified and make it harder for fakers to get on.  Make it a place where men and women who really want to meet others and find their soulmate.  If you a programming background and are interested in this, l

Sign the petition to try and stop online scammers

Hello, I just signed the petition, “Responsibilities Required From Social Media Regarding Military Romance Scamming.” I think this is important. Will you sign it too? Here’s the link: Thanks, Patsy

Survey results

The survey I put out a while back I thought I would share the results with you all. If you haven't filled it out yet, please do.  I want to hear from my readers.  Thanks!

New facebook page on Military Romance Scammers

Last Sunday I found a facebook page that is about military scammers.  I joined the page and posted info on my blog.  The owner of the page contacted me privately.  He shared my info on his page to bring more traffic here.   So now I want to share his facebook page here so you can go see his stuff.    Military Romance Scammers   I am going to get more info about his page and how he got involved in the fight of this.  So stay tuned.

I am pleased to introduce you to my new co-hort on catching scammers

As I mentioned in my last post I joined several more scammer pages on facebook.  This person contacted me about sharing my blog on his page.  And in return I will share his facebook page here.   So I asked him a few questions and he gratuitously answered them.  He has been a great resource too.  So here we go.    Were you in the military?  If so what branch and years were you in? Are you married, do you have kids? Well, about myself. I'm a 50 something Male, married with two adult children. I am retired Military, (US Marine Corps 1980-2000) originally from the south but now live on the West Coast. I unfortunately am also disabled which means I have a lot of free time on my hands.   How did you get involved starting your facebook about the military scammers? I got into helping identify Military Romance Scammers as a sideline from also being interested in combating "Stolen Valor" where people claim to have been awarded rank and medals from the military in order to obt