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st Sunday I found a facebook page that is about military scammers. I joined the page and posted info on my blog. The owner of the page contacted me privately. He shared my info on his page to bring more traffic here. So now I want to share his facebook page here so you can go see his stuff. Military Romance Scammers I am going to get more info about his page and how he got involved in the fight of this. So stay tuned.

Hello Pasty How are you doing ? Thank you responding to my personal email,Sorry for the delay to my respond .My names are Syvester Muller, I 'm a widower as you see in my profile,I have one child her name is Kelly she is 16,I live in Virginia Beach alone with my daughter,My family lives in Miami,lost my dad few years ago. I'm general and optimistic person with a great sense of humor seeking someone to enthrone as my queen,I have been single for three years now, I was Married for 17 years it hurt so bad for you to lost someone you love,well life is such a gift, I'm Self-Employ I'm into oil/Gas distribution and also work contract work for various oil/gas company, I'm open for a long distance relationship i have been through it before with my late wife so i can do it more better. My late wife pass away by cancer it was very painful but such is life, My Birthday is April 19th 1962,I have an accent when I speak ( I was brought up by my father) My mother is Native America,why my father is from French. I'm a mix race as you see I'm such a curious, ambitious, honest, trustworthy, kind, shy, nice, full of humor, express feelings like to joke, like romancing, I have this unique personality about life and general relationships. Life as we know is too short not to be able to enjoy the ones around us. I can always turn a frown into a smile. I enjoy meeting new people. I am educated, intelligent, sincere, very polite, sports oriented, charming, honest and most of all, I have the personality that draws friends and even strangers closer to me. I enjoy being active in all types of indoor and outdoor sports. I especially like the beach, softball, motorcycle riding and fitness training...Anything else you want to know will fall as follow as we get to know one another,tell me about your self,I am going to place my profile page on hold,so that i can concentrate on getting to know you, I will send you some pictures and write more when I hear from you you seem like a real woman. Your New Friend Muller First thing that sets me off? Can you guess? Yes the spelling of my name. It's PATSY!!!!!!!!! Once I got past that the email is the same as the others. I don't know if they have a club where they all get together and create emails because they are all the same. But they really need to work on their English. Okay, here is email #2: Hello Pasty How are you doing? Thank you so much for your letter and for introducing your self in such manner, Don't allow distance to be any problem i have done it before when i meant my late wife she was in Akron Ohio and was in Miami with my mother we dated back and front for 4 months before we decided to settled down together and get married, This is all new to me but i believe one thing their is always a first time for everything. All i'm seeking from you is love friendship and honest for us to build our friendship strong and reliable because relationship is not all about sex,it about love,trust,commitment and happiness,Am very straight forward person,I don't like liars,thief's fighting and yelling ,my favorite color is red,I feel God have brought you and I together,I'm not wanting or looking for just any woman to have sex with don't get me wrong,I love sex i can make love all day when am in love with that person. I believe love making go smoothly when both partner share love between their heart. I need someone that GOD have made for me.I love swimming and shopping but have not done any of all that in a while because i hate doing it alone.I like cars,I have a red BMW Sport ,it a nice car Love it,I do go to church every Sunday I play guitar at my church also my daughter sing for the choir in her church,I like keeping my affair to my self,don't like sharing secret and personal affair between me and my woman outside to friends. My spirit tell me you are different, you are the kind of woman I have been praying to meet for all this years of been alone,I have not been a man enough to look for another love.since the passing of my wife, But now is the time to make my self happy and a woman like you happy.I have a lot which I will like you to know about me and for my family to embrace you as their own,because there is this spirit in me that tells me when a woman is fit for me. You may not understand what i mean, but with time i believe you will see it all. I am 100% sincere about getting to know you and giving your my concentration and attention,Because when i came across your profile it was simple for me to understand and you process the potentials i am seeking from a woman,the quality,body structure, so i believe you are my final stop no more searching from the website,Here is my cell phone is xxxxxxxxxxx you can call me anytime or send a text message anytime ,Also if you Skype that we be nice as well because it will enable us to see each other and get to know one another.don't forget to respond to this message. Take Care Muller Now after the first email I wrote back and corrected him on the spelling of my name. Obviously he didn't get it and still has my name misspelled. Oh well. So from my work phone I called his number and got an actual person's voice mail and it was some foreign guy. So I hung up. Now here is the fun part. My response back to him: Thanks for the picture. The guy in the picture is really good looking. Where did you steal it from? A website? I'm no longer interested. But thanks. I can tell from your emails that you're fake and not really that person in the photo. Good try though. Take a hike. Perhaps I am too blunt? Nah!!!!!!!!! And of course I have a picture and we all know here it will end up now. THE LIARS WALL OF DISDAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I met Sally on the Next Door app for our neighborhood. She sent me a private message and we've chatted several times about the crazy people on dating site. Below is her success story that she shared with me. "I met Dave on POF or Plenty of Fish. We talked a few times and decided to meet for dinner. I had some medical issues that I told him about before meeting and seemed to accept them. He told me about his, but after talking to him, I forgot all about those. We met for dinner and instantly connected. We laughed and talked and decided to go for a drive to talk some more. That is when I finally realized he was missing a leg. Call me the unaware. We started dating and talking regularly, I was spending weekends with him and really getting to know each other. I guess you can say I was really falling for him, my feelings ran deep. When he told me he loved me, the dog and I were playing on the floor and it shocked me. I looked up and had tears in my eyes, it touched me that deeply. We loved cooking together, just snuggling together on the couch and we were starting to get me involved in some of his favorite hobbies. I will never forget the day he looked at me and said “I love you but I do NOT want to get married again.” I was fine with that. I understood the feelings. We were just getting geared up to be a “couple” and have him meet my family and vice versa when he suddenly passed away from a heart attack. His last words to me were “You make me feel like a King.” I guess I did something right, I made his last days happy. I know he made me happy the entire time we were together." Thank you Sally for sharing your beautiful story. I am sure Dave is looking down from heaven and smiling.

They say timing is everything. It was with Brian and Debby. I’ve known Brian since the 80s when we worked together. After his wife Sue passed away he took time to move on. When he was ready to date again he decided to join a dating site. He joined Match.com He had several dates but no sparks with any of them. One girl he went out with they met at a parking lot and he drove them to Sikeston to eat at Lammerts (Home of the Throwed Rolls). As soon as they came back to her car, she couldn’t get out of the car fastest and into her car. Brian had no idea what was going on. Like all us in the dating scene you think you’ll never meet anyone. Then came along Debby. She messaged him first on Match. She wasn’t in the age range he was looking for. She missed the cut off by one year. But she went ahead and messaged him. When Brian saw the message, he checked out her picture and profile and was definitely interested. He couldn’t wait to meet her. They went out and the sparks were there. They dated for a while. Debby her some personal stuff that she didn’t want to burden Brian with so she said they should go their separate ways. They were a part for a year. But Brian didn’t give up. He would send her cards and the occasional text. Then on New Year’s Day he sent her a text that said, “Wishing you a happy New Year with love and happiness.” They started texting after that and it brought them back together and they’ve been together ever since. During their separation Brian did date but they just weren’t Debby. He knew she was the one. When I posted that I was looking for success stories Brian was the first to reply. Thanks Brian and Debby for sharing your story with me. This is just the sweetest story and I couldn’t be happier for them.

Here is the conversation. And of course his picture will be added to the Liars Wall of Disdain.

As I mentioned in my video, my friend Darin from work is an Army Vet so when I have questions I ask him. Here is a good tip fro my friend Darin: "Ask him where he is deployed, specifically which FOB. FOB stands for Forward Operating Base so if he says he is at one of these he has no cell phone capabilities. If he doesn't even know what he means you got him there too!" Thank you Darin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is on my You Tube channel. For some reason uploading here won't work. Click on the link below to see my video I GOT A LIVE ONE!!!

For a third time. LOL!! So earlier today I saw an alert that someone viewed me. It was this guy! LOL!!! So I went and viewed him again. He changed his age to a younger age. But I didn't read the rest of it. So I went back this evening to look at the pictures again and guess what? He's gone. He must have deleted his profile when he saw I looked at his. He can't blocked me because we didn't have a conversation on there. (To block someone you have to exchanged a note first). Every day is a new adventure. What lies ahead tomorrow?

This one is short. Unfortunately I didn't keep all the texts to copy here. He wanted to get off site to chat as they all do. Here's a tip. When they give you phone number, go to another phone like a work number and dial it. What happens is it will go to a recording for you to announce your name. It doesn't go through to the person or two voicemail. One of the services for this if through Google. I can't remember the other. Anyway, they are fake. Add that to the list of tips I've published earlier. :) Funny thing about this one. We texted a for a bit must have forgotten who he was chatting with. LOL! You'll see his comment and mine below. He's history and has been added to the Liars Wall of Disdain. :)

So here is a conversation I had on POF: So I had asked where he lived in MO and he said he was deployed. So I of course thanked him for his service. When I went back to see his response, he blocked me. And I couldn't get a screen shot. What a shocker. NOT!!! LOL!!!!

Here are emails from a new guy. We'll discuss it later. :) #1 Good Morning Patsy, I thank you very much for your response, I want to formally tell a little about myself. I want to meet with you and get to know you. I am a self employed man. I am a geologist by profession. I am hired by corporations and companies for mining contracts. I am widowed I lost my wife through Polycystic Kidney Disease 6 years ago. My life is totally empty and i need that special woman in my life to make me whole again. And i saw that attributes in you and decided to let you know how i feel. But first we have to be friends… I believe that if your partner is your best friend then you have a lasting relationship filled with fun, inner peace and happiness. I grew up in Switzerland, I live in Springfield MO now, moved down here two years ago.. i speak a foreign language (Romansh), you can notice my accent even in my writings... I'm an easy going, Honest , down to earth person, I am a great lover of the arts and Music but like the outdoors... I also love traveling and experiencing different cultures and seeing the world from a different perspective. I think it's good to give something back to the community, in whatever small way. I really love life and everything it has to offer. I am very focused and goal oriented person that also makes sure to enjoy life at the same time. I work very hard to get all the things I want in life , but at the same time I love what I do. So I consider myself pretty lucky Now all I really need is to find that special woman that I can share and enjoy all the great things life has to offer. I pride myself on being direct and honest with people, and motivating people with direct feedback. Life's too short to not tell the truth. I believe that if your partner is your best friend then you have a lasting relationship filled with fun, inner peace and happiness. I am an independent man who loves working and planning and in search of a lovely woman who will forever remain my life partner as well as growing older together. All I want now is someone who can be comfortable at an important public function but has no problem getting sand between her toes at the beach! Sure enough of herself to open herself to loving and caring about that special man in her life. A woman who can communicate what she desires and has the ability to listen. Someone who is positive and believes that every day holds something amazing. The ability to share her heart, her mind. I want to share my life with someone, and it won't be as a playmate. I want to be good friends with you as friendship is the basic of every good relationship. I hope to hear from you soon my lady, will send you more pics of me in my next email. Would love to have yours as well. Take care of yourself for me. Regards, Allan. #2 Hi Patsy, Thanks for writing back, glad to read from you. I would like to know more about you, like what you do for a living, where you are from and where you stay now, How big is your family, where are your parents, how many brothers and sisters you have. I have been single for 6 years now. And it took me so many years to find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for, I want a soul mate that will take her time to know me and Love me for who I am and not what I have, I want my Next relationship to be my last. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is really looking for a Relationship. good woman is few, far and in between and because of how busy life is lately, Internet is the modern way to meet people more easy and faster. How long have you been using internet dating? Please feel free to ask me anything you want to know about me, it will help me get a feel of who you are and whats important to you... Goodnight. Allan. #3 Hello Beautiful, Nice to hear from you again Pasty, Sorry for delayed response, I had a busy weekend. How are you doing today? I will answer your question in this email but I wonder if you read my previous message or you just copy and paste... However, I am ready for a new relationship yes but the relationship has to be mutual, trusted between both partner, help each other when we need help, such as if you have a rough day and need help i am there to help you. To support you, that's what you call trust and friendship, my father told me many years ago, to treat a woman with respect and act like a gentleman. my mother is Scotch, Irish, English and my father is Italian and Chippewa. Dad died when I was a teenager, My Mom raised me up as a single Mom, she passed on May 12, 2001. I'm the only Child of my Parents. It really hurt me so much about my losses in the past in parents, my only daughter who passed 9 years ago in an auto Accident and my late wife. I am glad i overcome it all and ready to face the Future and see what it holds with the right person, which is part of the reason i relocated down here for a fresh start.. I hope that answers your question. I'm ready to love, I believe that if there is chemistry between two people love will only blossom. You seem to have many qualities that I am looking for in a woman. Someone who is independent, jovial, open minded honest and has a good heart. Friendship is the key to a long lasting relationship, it is the foundation and also passion is needed for a romantic relationship to flourish. I feel that if you can't be friends first what chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you have to have trust and respect. You have to like the person you're friends with to get along together. Once that is accomplished falling in love with them is just an extension of friendship, only stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick house, love must also have a foundation.. It helps to have things in common too and with proper communication a relationship is sustained. I don't judge people i share their fears and also support them mentally and emotionally if need be, I hate when people find fault in anything i do and start judging so i never get to judge people no matter there wrongs I believe they need to be talked to. I hate being cheated on or lied to and i believe honesty is a great deal in a relationship if two couples are not totally honest with themselves then it will never work out between them so i will never cheat or lie to my partner. I want to give you my attention. I want to pour my heart and soul to a lady that really cares and is ready to be loved by her man and love him in return. . I just want to share my world with a special woman. Spend the rest of my life with her. A few other things: Favorite color - Blue Music - I enjoy almost all music. Especially pop music, Blues, country music, holding hands while dancing.I enjoy staying physically fit, I have some workout equipment and also have a membership at a fitness center. Setting a good example is important.Keeping a good home I like. Making improvements and just keeping it nice. Other things I like: beaches, skiing, swimming, riding bikes, walking or jogging, camping, fishing, baseball, dancing, and cooking on the grill for my partner. I do try when it comes to writing poems too. I like animals. You know, getting to know you is something I could hope for and would be a great pleasure getting to meet you in person. Enjoy your day leaving you with this song. From my heart, Allan. #4 dear Patsy, Thanks for the e-mail, am always happy to hear from you. You seem like a very wonderful woman and would love to meet you soon, I live in MO. It does not take a day you know I work as much as i would but i get too lonely and come back home to find no one say "how was your day", I am ready to meet someone to share life with.. I enjoy walking out, fishing, golf, traveling, reading poems and enjoy a fun time with my other half. I love meeting new people and trying new things, I enjoy cuddling up on the couch to a fire and a romantic movie. I consider myself a very honest and open man and enjoy giving and receiving affection, have been Single for some years now. I am an easy going person and easy to get along with, I am a gentle man at all times and I respect the person, compassionate, a great listener, and not afraid to show my emotions. I believed not only in what a woman look like but her heart play the most important role to me in a relationship. Can describe myself again as a family man, who thinks it's more important to come home and spend quality time with the family instead of hanging out at the bar or out there doing some others stuffs. I enjoy traveling, you know its always nice seeing new places and meeting new people from the world. Bedroom aerobics are great and I consider that as an important part of a serious relationship ( hope you understand what i mean by that ), Being able to come home after work and hold a nice conversation is something that has been missing in my life for a long time and i hope i find someone i can do that with, in no time... I love to touch!!! Holding hands and showing affection is very important to me i believed in friendship so much because to me it is the key role to a long lasting relationship. Am a simple person and try to never ask anything of anyone, will just try to do it myself. I have had to take care of myself for a very long time now, do the best i can with what i have and just keep trying harder to do better. I try to never give up no matter how bad a problem may be. I'm a hard working man but will always have time for that special woman in my life. What am I looking for, well that's kind of hard for me to say. I am looking for someone that is honest, truthful, faithful,with a good heart and enjoys doing some of the things I do. Someone that is woman enough to stick out good times , bad times, hard times, she is always there no matter what may happen. That will let me be me and if that means letting use their shoulder to lean on once in a while. Someone that is not controlling, abusive, or a person that is very harsh and cannot trust her man . Someone who is romantic,passionate, caring and will surprise you sometimes for no reason but to say she was thinking and missing you. I want Someone that wants to share their life with mine and mine with theirs and in return this person will get more from me. Would be happy if i find that special woman in no time, I am willing to relocate anywhere to be with the right one for me. The woman i will trust with my heart and she would do the same. Guess It's Time to stop Searching and would be happy to see where this takes us. Am willing to Love you forever. I feel like the Luckiest one having to get your Attention but I believe God knows best... I hope to hear from you soon. With love and respect, Allan. Okay, so what did you think? Yes, they all write about the same thing. So when I wrote back and asked again where in MO he lived. Then I sent a second email asking for his phone number so we could chat. I had no intentions of calling him back but I thought if I got his number I could run it through White Pages Premium and find out where he really is. Guess what? You know it's coming. I never heard back. LOL!!!!